CHOICES AND CONSEQUENCES: INFORMING OURSELVES
Part One
. EVERY DAY WE MAKE CHOICES. Life is full of choices and practically every second we make a choice. We choose to get up in the morning, to get dressed, to go to work, how we go to work, where we park, and on. Then through the day we choose when to check our e-mails or drink some coffee, whether to stay sitting at our computer or go out for a walk at lunch time, etc. These are the routine everyday choices. We also have the host of choices that we choose to be made by default, that is we didn't make a conscious decision to do something, but we let our unconscious mind go on autopilot for the things that we think we don't need to give our attention to.
We would be overwhelmed and paralyzed in indecision if we had to make a contemplated choice about every detail of our lives. But there are things that we should make choices about because the default choices made unconsciously, probably are not in our best interests.
For example, if we let our unconscious choose we would eat every cookie, candy, cake, ice-cream and probably every other snack food available in our home - without interruption. This would not be a good choice, so reasonably we don't do that, We might choose to eat a limited amount of those at any one time. Then we might look at the choices we made in the grocery store that brought all of those items into our home. I often say, "It is a lot easier to say 'No' once in the store than it is to say 'No' twelve times when we are faced with a bag of cookies calling to us from the coffee table as we watch TV in the evening." Don't the cookies always win?
Some of our choices are made out of habit, and making that choice relieves us of the burden of making a deliberate choice ... but the consequences are ours none-the less.
To be continued....










